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The goal of personal development is personal freedom. Freedom from your emotions, moods, reactions to success or failure and most importantly, freedom from being dependant on other people or your environment.
Emotional independence is not about suppressing or stifling your emotions, rather it means that you can choose your moods, and obviously you will choose to be happy rather than sad. Your mood and state can always be positive Nike Air Foamposite One and balanced, and not affected by the events that happen in your life and in the world.
Emotional independence includes tremendous compassion for everybody and everything without your personal emotions getting caught up and actually being assimilated into the event. Instead of becoming overwhelmed and negative along with other people, you stay independent emotionally from the event so you can have true compassion for other peoples feelings with objective reason and your actions or words will be the most appropriate and effective for the circumstances at hand.
Normally, people are very emotionally dependant on external circumstances for their source of joy, and therefore are subject to sadness or negative emotions being caused by that same source they are dependant on.
There are only two possible sources, you and everything else. You cannot be dependant on yourself and still dependant on anything else. If that is the case, then you cannot say you are self dependant. So either it is you or everything else. Given it is everything else, the danger is that in this state, the normal aOlernKienOP Air Jordan DMP Online Shopping Trends human state, anything and everything has the power to swing your emotions and mood.
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Buddha said that life is suffering. Suffering is caused by desires. I explain it like this; desires are created by stimulating any one or more of Air Jordan 15s the five senses. The five Air Jordan Women Size senses are stimulated by what reaches them in their natural function. But further than the five senses, we have imagination. That is the true cause of suffering.
Imagination is the faculty which creates out of nothing. This is the great asset of humans that differentiates us from animals. However, like all good things, give it to a human and they will find a way to use it to destroy themselves or their environment.
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Discrimination is what keeps a person balanced. Discrimination is the filter and objective view of what is really happening, and Air Jordan 10s determining the appropriate response.
Humans love excitement, fantasy, Hollywood, joining in the crowd, regardless of what the crowd is doing, good or bad. So when your emotions are fired up, positive or negative, excited or grieving, question if you really feel that or, have your emotions been set on fire because of someone else and you are just going along. Or are you under circumstances that people say you should feel a certain way and so you do, even if you don Or is it habitual to your culture, or your family.
Beware not to follow the crowd and just be a sheep following the others into the slaughterhouse. There is a saying in Arabic. Phonetically pronounced, Gigi This means, of a chicken Like a chicken, some people follow blindly without thinking where they are going, walk right into the slaughterhouse, and get their head cut off, even while watching the other chickens running around without their heads.
Negative emotions are brought out by emotional dependency, following or reacting to the situation and other people. That is the head of a chicken, not a true human. I mean true as distinct from the masses of people living in a waking sleep.
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Seeing and accepting the reality of the world is required to attain freedom and independence. Emotionally independent means that you are free to Air Jordan 12s say what you feel because you are not dependant on what others think of you for you to feel good about yourself.
The emotionally independent person is a leader. The dependant ones follow. You have now been exposed to these conditions, therefore your place in life is now in your own hands. To be a normal human or a True Human Being.
Method of Cultivation of Emotional Independence
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Suffering is caused by not accepting reality. There are only two states, reality and imagination. Accepting reality is living in the realm of truth. Therefore suffering is purely illusion in your imagination because it is caused by a refusal to accept reality, desiring what you aOlernKienOP Air Jordan 13s point second quarter deficit to down Lordsburg cannot have.
If you want the shoes, you aOlernKienOP Air Jordan Fusion 4 New Haven to hire private company to run public school suffer but that can push you to work a bit harder, save a bit more, and get the shoes. That suffering can be propelling. But still it is self created through desires.
Have no unattainable desires and you will have no suffering. Accepting reality is to; desire what is not acquirable. dependence is to; what aOlernKienOP Air Jordan 8s Helper Bottle Holder is not acquirable. Emotional independence is to; desire what is not acquirable. dependence is to imagine that everything and everyone belongs to you and therefore should respond to your needs so that they give you praise and never contradict you or complain about anything you do.
Emotional independence is to acknowledge that every thing and person has its own destiny, life and rights and therefore nothing belongs to you. Everything and everyone is free to be or say what they want, as you would like to be. Nike LeBron 12 And Emotionally independent person has a basic philosophy in life which is;
You can think what you want, that will not change my life.
What I think WILL change my life.
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and I will choose my thoughts for myself.
This person will choose to acknowledge their shortcomings so that they can improve. This person will accept responsibility for their actions so they do not live in guilt which requires them to live blinded to reality. This person will be respected and honored by others and be free to choose their feelings at all times, and be balanced and content.